You decide that you're going to do something and you do it. Even though you know you parents won't approve ...
It's not anything necessarily bad. It's just something don't particularly like.
You have fun with it, and love every moment.
A lie will be told about where you were, and what you did - to protect the truth.
They believe it, and don't suspect a thing at all.
So during the aftermath of it all...why do you feel that itty bitty pinch of guilt.
Why the hell do they have us trained so well.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Training Wheels
Posted by Taqo at 6:50 AM
Labels: Fear Tactics, Life
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27 skittles:
i feel guilty that i dont feel guilty :l
cuz theyre evil :o
maybe u should go do more bad stuff to cover up the guilt u feel for this bad thing :| lool, im joking, dont do anything 8<
want an almond? theyre healthy 8< yum yum
that's what they do, parents. the make us feel guilty for having fun or doing something they don't like. it's something ummm genetic? :/
my advice, say "FUCK IT, THEY'LL NEVER FIND OUT" =D
I think it is particularly hard to break ranks with your parent(s) if you are/were close with them.
We always strive to be like or please them but somewhere along the line one comes to the realization that you have to go about things your own way.
Making that decision can be very hard.
Hope I didn't over analyze your situation :)
I do believe that somethings have to be learned the hard way. Parents teach all they can but at the end they have to let go and let you make your own decisions. Like I said there are many times that the only way to learn is to experiance the Bad in order to learn. In my personal experiance I learned the most from my dad when he wasn't trying to teach me something ...lol
Don't feel bad Taco we all did Stuff ....Its good to feel a little guilty I think its what keeps you alive in certain bad situations ...lol ....Be Good !
Feeling guilty is something natural and without this feeling we would do everything without any considerations..
shrug it off :)
i seriously did not get a single thought.. maybe its too late.. ;p
Asma - Well you're in a diff situation! :p
Lil Fishy - Now that's good advice ;p
Noufa - This is one reason I kinda never want to be a parent :O
Dot - No, no over analyzing. :p
I think you're right. Especially since I don't really have any siblings living with me. Even though I don't see myself as being very "close" to them I guess I inevitably am :/
Naif - In my personal experiance I learned the most from my dad when he wasn't trying to teach me something ...
I think thats the same for me.
And I am good! :p Very good actually, lool.
Swarwar - True..Very true.
Baroque - I wish I was more like that ;p
we are very much in the same situation. we just deal with it differently.
if you are 18+
you are entitled to your own personal space..I never feel guilty when i do something I'm convinced it's good for me ;)
...what did you do...
Asma - If I had your mom I'd be "dealing with the situation differently" as well -_-
La titfalsafi.
Vampyress - You're right. But the folks don't seem to understand this concept :p
Woozie - Haha, I ain't tellin'! :O But don't worry, it wasn't really that bad :|
i get the feeling u are still taxiing down the runway of this particular flight
guilt exists for a reason. its probably telling you that you feel this guilty just by doing this little thing. imagine how guilty you will feel when you cross that big fat red line down there..
we've all been there taqo, we are all here today to tell the story..
tell me what did u do and i'll make it (guilt) go away ;p
Unokhan - Would you mind explaining that? :p lol.
Froggles - Thats bad. I wanted to cross a red line this summer :|
Missy - *whispers to you what she did* Yalla..make it go away :p
Did you choke on ball hair? I thought I advised you to do just the opposite, why don't you listen to me? :)
Try not to think about the guilt. I'm sure they did much worse things at your age, and the fact that you're keeping something form them shows that you don't want to hurt their feelings or upset them.
So really, you should be patting yourself on the back for how considerate you are. Good job, Taqo :-)
*abracadabra* go awaayyyy *abracadabra*
heheheh :D
it's because the less they know about you, the less connected you become. and you feel bad when you're farther away from your own parents.
Try a different tactic. tell them and be diplomatic about it? it will help you brush up on ass-kissing skills for later in life with bosses at work etc ;P
"I'm sure they did much worse things"
"it's because the less they know about you, the less connected you become"
uber -- indeed they did. and they are never going to tell you about them either, but will let you smother in a stew of guilt for quite a long time. some things they never tell anybody at all; other things you may find out years later when some relative accidently spills the beans, and by then the information is necessarily mere hearsay.
falatan -- also true. but the same fears that lead a parent to sidestep certain revelations are also grounds for a child to keep secrets of her own. there is, as we know, such a thing as TMI ;-)
I'd feel guilty, too. Damn conscience =@
What's sad is I haven't gotten that sharp twinge of guilt in about 5-6 years now. The novelty and subsequent high of "doing wrong" has all but worn off. To be honest, I do not know that I miss it very much either. I have made the informed decision to part ways with my family's judgment of things long ago -including my own sisters- and I think I have since accustomed to that (as evidenced by the antics I unabashedly share with you on an almost daily basis- and those, dare I say, that I withhold!)
My parents are my parents; old gits who don't know any better. It was my sisters' notions that were VERY hard to shake off. But I have come to peace with it now. We may have the same parents (and gene pool) but we choose to live differently, and we should just leave it at that. I guess I can empathize with you a bit, but not having sibs makes it a bit easier to break out of your parents' sway, in my opinion.
That being said..... YOUZ A WANKERESS!!! WHAT IZ DIS SCANDALICIOUS ENDEAVOR YOU HAVE YET TO DIVULGE TO ME! SPEAK NOW, SLAG!!!!
Woozie - Of course not! :p
Uber - Now, there's some food for thought :p I like the idea that I'm doing them a favour by keeping this to myself :p
Missy - :O ......Lesa mwjoud :|
Falantan - Hmmm..I think I've always been kinda distant though..
I dunno. Maybe you're right.
Uno - Lol. My aunt is always dishing out details of my mother's childhood, and young adult years :"> Accidentally of course. Mom will then proceed to glare at her! haha.
Mochness - Damn it!
Lipstick - Wise wors...wise words :p Seriously. Maybe I should take a page out of your book ;)
i cant post on the thats all folks post! where the hell is you goin? what do you mean? is it over? no! no! it cant be over!
i is not postin' here n e more.
is OVA.
i'll be around tho ;)
wow, i used to feel guilty i dont think i do anymore.... SHIT THAT SUCKS!!!
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